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Holding space
Apparently, it's a buzz phrase that’s becoming a thing, so I thought to use it! So yes, I am holding space for MYSELF. Before you wonder...
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![Why are we so complicated when it comes to relationships?](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/d9d40e_a1e2fb84467644d8a5f08fc525e6528e~mv2.webp/v1/fill/w_670,h_503,al_c,q_90,enc_auto/d9d40e_a1e2fb84467644d8a5f08fc525e6528e~mv2.webp)
Why are we so complicated when it comes to relationships?
Same subject, 2 years later. I remember when I first published this blog, it blew up as being one of my most read pieces. Men and women...
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Sip and paint!
Whoever started this trend in the world, did something right! I was thrilled to see this finally pop up in Suva by Art and Wine Fiji and of
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The word on Weta
And this is exactly how Weta went Weta Viral! No seriously, word of mouth in Fiji is perhaps the strongest network ever (and no offense...
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When Lodo says "Love it"!
It has been wedding season to attend to and I am not complaining. I love all the drama of finding the right outfit, matching jewelry,...
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That café perched on top of Suva (So I think)
Suva is known for its variety of restaurants and café in every nook and corner of its City. I always found myself looking up at this...
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Dark Skin
This is a topic that has been shared and discussed in many spaces and ways. But here is mine (briefly). I am dark skinned and I love it....
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A Fresh Fijian Experience!
“Bula! Make yourselves comfortable! As if on a cue, a song filled the air as a farmer working up in the hills belted out a Fijian song...
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Cafe Noir- Refreshing!
This little cafe used to be called Bad Dog Cafe for the past few years, but if i recall correctly, just recently it was refurbished and...
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The Elephant Tree
Have you heard about the elephant tree? Well neither did i, till my best friend Alysha said so. After a morning at the market we decided...